FIND OUT YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE (free 3min QUIZ)
I help you to go
âšfrom Anxious to Secure âš
IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Change in your relationship
starts with you
Thought by Thought
Action by Action
đ I help you go from Anxious to Secure 95% faster
đ€ Overcome YOUR fear of him leaving (in 4 months)
đ€ Use my 4R mehtod to
đ§Č To Re-attract your Partner (without the chase)
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Everything shifted in my relationship,
when I made a decison and took action.
Let me help you with this, without feeling overwhlemed or overthinking it.
As my client said:
"You can nothing to loose BUT everything to win"
4 Ways How to
Heal your Anxious Attachement
These offers are for you to GO DEEP.
To get my personal 1:1 support + guidance.
To create security FASTER with a proven, step-by-step framework you can follow.
To have a coach who was anxious for 30+ years and became secure in just 6 monthsâhelping you do the same.
You CAN do it alone⊠but you donât have to.
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THE 90 MIN
BREAKTHROUGH
CALL
A 1:1 deep-dive to help you break free from anxiety and relationship blocksâor creating a clear, personalized plan.
âŹ197 ONLY
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WHAT'S INCLUDED...
đ€ 90-minute private coaching session (a double session for real breakthroughs)
đ€ 2X follow-ups within two weeks (via written messages or voice notes)
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
⥠You want expert guidance on healing your anxious attachment (learning to self-soothe, process emotions, rewire limiting beliefs, set boundaries, and feel truly good enough)
⥠You need a quick SOS call to move through a specific challenge in your anxious-avoidant relationship or your anxious attachment journey.
⥠You want a personalized action plan to go from anxious to secureâtailored to your relationship dynamics.
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MONTHLY
VOXER COACHING
Think of this like having me in your pocketâpersonalized texting support where Iâll help you spot blind spots, shift your mindset, and guide you through the anxious moments in real time. đŹâš
FRIENDS âŹ99
BESTIES âŹ199
WHAT'S INCLUDED...
đČ Text + voice support to talk through challenges within 24-48 hours
đČ Easy flow back and forth (YOU decide the intensity of support)
đČ Worksheets, action plans, and visuals to reinforce your learning and deepen your self-work
đČ Flexible, real-time coaching thatâs faster and more tailored than a bi-weekly call
đČ Tools and mindset shifts to help you feel more secure and rely on yourself, not others
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
đđŒââïž You need help processing emotions or challenges as they come up throughout the week...and become emotionally EMPOWERED
đđŒââïž You LOVE CONSISTENT support through MICRO-actionsâsomeone whoâs there when it matters most, without waiting for a bi-weekly call
đđŒââïž Youâre aware that YOU can create inner peace by doing the inner work and being coached by an expert who has been through it.
đđŒââïž Youâre ready to try NEW methods and learn and stop going back to old methods, even if youâre not sure how YET.
đđŒââïž You want to BREAK the anxious-avoidant CYCLE and build healthier, chase-free relationships with personalised private support
đđŒââïž You want proven FRAMEWORKDS + tools to master your emotions, and not depend on your partner or the coach in the long-run
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THE BLUEPRINT 95% faster
This self-study course is designed to help you become securely attached FASTER by working with your subconscious mindâwhich drives 95% of your thoughts, emotions, and actions.
Go at your own pace, rewire from the inside out, and finally feel SAFE in love.
âŹ97 ONLY WAITLISTERS
(WORTH âŹ997)
âŹ247 OFFICIAL
WHAT'S INCLUDED...
đ€ 6+ Modules with TONS of micro-action steps + worksheets to apply the tools & frameworks
đ€ Audio Bundle: Self-soothing exercises, belief rewiring, & surprise bonuses đ§
đ€ Study at your own paceârewatch anytime on your couch, during your commute, or on the go
đ€ My Anxious to Secure 4-Step Framework to shortcut your journey & eliminate the guesswork: THE 4R METHOD (Release, Rewire, Reconnect, Reflect)
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
đ€If youâre ready to stop overthinking, over-giving, and second-guessing your worthâthis is for you. Youâll get all the tools, frameworks, and mindset shifts that transformed my relationships and those of my clients, even if youâve been years in therapy and âtried it allâ.
đ€ You know you have an anxious attachment style and YOUR anxiety comes from YOUR past, not your partner, whoâs simply triggering old wounds. đâ€ïžâđ©č
đ€ Staying in your anxious-avoidant relationship feels off, but leaving feels harder. By working on your attachment style, youâll shift your relationship and stop creating love based on anxiety. đȘđœ
đ€ Youâre ready to become the BEST, most secure version of yourself.
đ€ You donât need to be in a relationship to start. If youâre single, this course helps you lay the foundation now, so youâre not repeating old patterns. Plus, youâll practice your triggers in friendships, dating, and everyday interactionsâbecause true healing happens through exposure to real-life triggers.
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1:1 Coaching
Youâll want 1:1 coaching if you're ready for HIGEST level, personalized supportâwhere Iâll guide you with love but directness to uncover your blind spots to fast-track your transformation into secure, anxiety-free love. Your relationship, health + life GLOW up that ripples through ALL areas of your life.
4 MONTH TOTAL âŹ2,997
8 MONTH âŹ4,997
*payment plans available
WHAT'S INCLUDED...
đ€ 45-min 1:1 coaching session EVERY TWO WEEKS
đ€ Text + voice follow-ups between calls (this is where 80% of the transformation happensâapplying the tools in real-time).
đ€ My Anxious to Secure 4 Step Frameworks to SHORTCUT your journey and eliminate the guesswork: (THE 4R METHOD: Release, REwire, REconnect, Reflect)
đ€ More than just transformationâyouâll get a friend, a guide, an expert who holds space for you, cheers you on, and walks beside you every step of the way. Iâve been there, and I know how to get you out of that place in the most EMPOWERING way.
Iâm not here just to reassure you; Iâm here to give you the knowledge and tools to MOVE FORWARD.
Because YOUR WIN is MY WIN.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
đ€ You know you have an anxious attachment style, and while youâre 50% of the problem, YOUâRE 100% the solution. Your anxiety comes from YOUR past, not your partner, whoâs simply triggering old wounds. đâ€ïžâđ©č
đ€ Staying in your anxious-avoidant relationship feels off, but leaving feels harder. By working on your attachment style, youâll shift your relationship and stop creating love based on anxiety. đȘđœ
đ€ Youâre tired of only feeling secure when your partner shows up a certain way. Itâs time to create security FROM WITHINđ§đŒââïžđâš and stop worrying about their mood or if youâre good enough.
đ€ Youâre ready to become the BEST, most secure version of yourself. Youâre done with survival strategies like overthinking, overachieving, and people-pleasing. Itâs time to feel safe, connected, and attract calm, secure love.
đ€ Youâve tried it allâtherapy, boundaries, self-help booksâbut NOTHING'S sticking. Thatâs where I come in: teaching you how to REWIRE đ§Źđ§ your subconscious for lasting change.
Do You Know Your
Attachment Style?
Hey, Iâm Jula! đđŒââïž
Iâm an anxious-to-secure coach, and for over thirty years,
I lived with anxious attachment. đ€đ€
It was the root cause of my anxiety, doubt, overthinking, and insecurities.
It even led to chronic migraines, bladder issues, and constant struggles in my relationships.
I always felt small and insecure, worried my partner would leave me, and convinced myself I wasnât good enough.
In friendships, I believed people didnât like me as much as I liked them.
Getting clarity on my attachment style was the first step to so many aha moments.
It helped me see how my anxious-avoidant relationship
was a cycle where we triggered each otherâs wounds.đâ€ïžâđ©č
When I worked on my anxious attachment, everything started to shiftâ
my confidence, my health, and my relationships...and even career, wohoo! âš
Now, as a coach, I see so many people mixing up their attachment styles.
But understanding your style can be the breakthrough youâve been searching for.
Take this quiz to:
đ Gain clarity on your attachment style.
đ Stop chasing love and start creating security from within.
đ Finally feel at peace in your relationships.
Start your journey here! đ€đ€âš
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đïž The Anxios To Secure đïžPODCAST
đ§ New to Attachment Theory?
Relationship Anxiety Myths
- đ§ TRUTH: Your Anxiety has MORE to do with YOU than with your PARTNER: STOP blaming them
- đ§ MYTH: Your Partner should be your emotional rock AKA Therapist (NOT)
- đ§ MYTH If Only My Partner would reassure me more often THEN I'd be fine
- đ§ TRUTH: Your Partner is NOT your DADDY - STOP thinking he is supposed to take care of your emotional needs
More episodes
- đ§ When your Partner INVALIDATES you...(Use my 4R method)
- đ§ HELP! My partner is pulling away! How to Re-Connect
- đ§ 10 Micro Relationship Goals: How to become 1% more secure every day
Your Anxiety is NOT YOUR FAULT but
Yours to heal
(it's not your partners fault)
đ€ READY? đ€
Transform Your
Anxious
Attachment Style đźâš
HOW TO GO
âšfrom anxious to secure âš
IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Are You Lying Awake at Night...
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Worrying You're Not Good Enough đ
Or That Your Partner Might Leave Youđđ€?
Your FEAR of him leaving
WILL PUSH HIM AWAY!
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IMAGINE....
đ© Instead of pacing through your flat and checking his social mediađ±, your phone if he texted you for updates on why he is STILL OUT for drinks with his mates...đ„ș
âŹ
ïŒ NOW ïŒ
àȘââŽ
...you'll be enjoying the time for yourself.
NO URGE to seek his reassurance!!
You are having funâšđ§, creating the amazing life you love:
Because know and feel deeply worthy and enough
and know your happiness doesn't depend on him.
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This could be YOUR future.
Ready to stop dreaming
+ ready to take action?
(actions create results xx)
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